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Traveling Via Carry On - Even with Toddlers

April 10, 2019


It doesn't have to be hectic

Isn't traveling so much fun? But really, I actually love traveling only because it brings you to new places. Exploring new places is one of my favorite things to do. 

I used to be an "always-check-a-bag" kind of girl before I met my husband. I had a giant leopard print suitcase set that I used everywhere I went. I packed every type of shoe and almost every outfit I owned. But that quickly changed with the vast amount of traveling we do, not wanting to wait in even more airport lines, wanting to have access to everything in our bags and my newfound skillset of being able to pack all three of us in three backpacks. If you had told me that I would be able to travel with only a backpack 7 years ago I would have laughed at you.

In our upcoming travel logs we're headed to Florida for both of Jax's Uncle's Helicopter Pilot Training Graduation. YAY! Did I mention that not only was I in the military, but so are all of my husband's siblings as well as my brother? Safe to say we do a TON of traveling. But because of my newfound skill of packing three backpacks easily and efficiently, traveling isn't as stressful.

First, we'll start with Jax's new backpack that he is obsessed with. You can find it, or some like it, at Target. In his backpack I pack the 10 things that will be useful to him throughout the flight:


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1. Diapers and wipes

Make sure it is plural diapers, even if it is a short flight. Trust me, it is better to be safe than sorry.

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2. Change of clothes

I have made the mistake of not packing this in the past.

As he sat on my lap (before he was 2) I felt that inevitable warm feeling on my leg and knew he had leaked through his outfit.

This is a necessity.





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3. Hat

We just loop his hat around the backpack handle.

We always bring a hat (either a beanie during Winter or ball cap during Summer) with us wherever we go because we always end up needing one.







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4. Snacks

I used to always pack him a bottle for takeoff because it helps soothe them and prevent gas from the altitude.

Now I try to pack a few healthy snacks that aren't full of sugar (so he won't be even more wild on the plane) that I know he likes to eat. He loves Larabars and the Bare fruit chips so that's what we will bring this week.

I throw fruit snacks in the backpack for emergency purposes 😅.


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5. Cup

This kid is ALWAYS thirsty so I always bring a leakproof Munchkin cup that we can fill up once we get through security.

I love the Munchkin brand and have never had one of their cups that I didn't like.





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6. Bandaids

I always have those in my diaper bag as well, just in case.

I mean, isn't it a mom thing to carry bandaids?

Sometimes I bring our travel first aid kit as well.





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7. Antibacterial

Planes are gross so of course I bring the Babyganics antibacterial with me everywhere we go.

I love that it's alcohol free!







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8. Ipad/Headphones/Charger

Unfortunately we're not the no screen time parents. When we want him to wind down for the night we let him watch a few shows that he likes. This also works on the plane.

My cousin recommended these awesome pair of foldable kids headphones. He tried them on already and LOVES them.

And most importantly don't forget the charger for the iPad!



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9. Book

I like to bring multiple forms of entertainment with us.

If the Ipad doesn't entertain him hopefully the book will.

It's a small book (doesn't take up much room) and we now have our usual bedtime story in order to keep him in a somewhat regular routine.




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10. Sunglasses

We're going to Florida, so of course he needs sunglasses.

Gotta protect his little baby eyes.






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That is just his little backpack that he now wears on his own back. On top of that I pack his diaper bag backpack full of all his clothes, shoes and diapers that he will need for the trip. Count out how many days you will be there and add on 2-4 extra outfits. If you have access to a washer and dryer you won't need to bring the extras! Another HUGE detail is stroller and carseat. We usually rent carseats where we're landing or just gate check a cheap carseat (look on facebook market for these so that you don't ruin your own carseat). For strollers I use one of those $20, small, foldable one that can fit in the overhead bins. Waalaaa, easier, stress-free toddler traveling.


Now, onto adult carryon contents!


I will show you how I have learned to pack my own carryon quickly and efficiently. My husband and I do this when traveling overseas as well because we don't have to worry about losing luggage or finding where foreign baggage claims are. As you can see below, we walked around Paris with our carry-on backpacks for a whole day before we got to our Airbnb---It makes for so much more convenient travel!
The key is to look up the weather ahead of time, count the number of days you will be there and plan your outfits out.

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1. Shoes
Depending on the season and where I am going I will pack 1-2 pairs of shoes. If its cold I will be wearing a pair of boots and pack a pair of my Nikes. If its warm or we're going to a fancy event I wear my Nikes, pack heels and pack my sandals. Shoes take up a lot of room so you need to decide which ones are a necessity. 
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2. Shower materials
I still have that leopard print flair that I used to have, but it's now downsized to a shower bag 💁. I always bring my own shower materials in 3oz bottles. I put them in a plastic bag or my shower bag. Going through security I only have to take that one small bag out if we don't have pre-check, so it isn't a hassle to me because I put it at the top of my backpack. I also put my brush in the picture because I have forgotten it at some points and that's a huge NO for me to forget!
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3. Outfits
Here I have 4 nice outfits that I can mix and match. I have two athletic wear outfits for when we have downtime and we're relaxing. I plan out my outfits ahead of time and pack one for each day, plus a lounge outfit or two. I always bring at least one type of sweater or jacket that will go with most, if not all, my outfits. This of course takes ahead-of-time planning, but it is so much easier than checking your bags. 
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4. Wallet/Phone/Charger/Headphones
The essentials of course. Don't forget your charger!

I just got this wallet this past weekend and like it a lot because my phone can fit inside of it.






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5. Water bottle
I usually always bring one to fill up once were through security. This reusable  Starbucks one is convenient because you can hook it to your backpack if you don't have a cup holder on the side of your backpack.
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6. Hat & Sunglasses
Just like for Jax's bag I always bring a hat and hook this onto the backpack handle. Florida is sunny so I will definitely be using a hat as well as my sunglasses. I bring the case so they won't get ruined.
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7. Pain medicine/Chapstick/Peppermint Oil
My chapstick is a given because I can't go half a day without chapstick. I also bring pain medicine and Peppermint Oil because these are both helpful for aches and pains, soreness from walking a lot more than usual, headaches and nausea (the peppermint oil helps stop that).
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8. Book
Have you ever been stuck on a plane without some source of entertainment? I have and it's horrible. Now, no matter what, I bring a book. I may have a chance to sneak in a few pages when my son quiets down.

I just read Rachel Hollis' new book Girl, Stop Apologizing so I went out and bought her first book right away. Girl, Wash Your Face is next on my list!
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And that's it for my bag! My husband basically packs the same thing before every trip as well. 


That's really all you need. It is that simple. Traveling doesn't need to be crazy or stressful as long as you plan ahead. You will never lose luggage or have late luggage with this technique---And if your baby or toddler happens to spit up or spill something on you, you now both have your change of clothes accessible right there.


***If you are traveling overseas don't forget that passport! 


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April: Military Child Appreciation Month

April 6, 2019

April is the month of the Military Child and there are around 1.2 million children of Active Duty Members in the U.S.

I never knew they had a special month until we had our own son.

I have so many military friends out there who have their own little kiddos and it's time to celebrate them! Some of you reading this right now may even be a military mom yourself or the wife of a military service member. And your kids truly deserve recognition!
I thank God everyday that I got medically discharged from the Air Force because otherwise life would have been even more insane and we probably wouldn't have our little Jackson. I never would have said that three years ago when I was in the middle of getting discharged, during my dream of becoming a pilot, but it was such a blessing in disguise. I applaud all those mil-to-mil spouses out there who make it work! But God's plan for us was different.


Jax has already been through two deployments (and numerous long TDYs) since he was born and he is only 2 years old. The first deployment was much harder on us (than him) because Jax wasn't aware of what was going on yet being that he was only four months old. It was even harder because my husband would be missing his first Father's Day with Jax. Let's clear things up, my husband is different than most---my husband lives for family and would be a stay at home dad if we could afford that---his core belief is FAMILY and he is an amazing dad with infinite love for Jax. Because of this we were both upset that he would be separated from Jax at such a young age. My husband felt like he was going to miss so much and that Jax wouldn't remember him when he got back. We were lucky enough to be able to plan a visit to see him half way through his deployment and this made the deployment easier for all of us and gave us a lot to look forward to. We flew out to Okinawa, Japan for about a week...my sister-in-law (Katie) and I flew on a plane for 13 hours (and then another for 3-4) with a four month old just so he could see his Daddy. Some would say we were crazy. 😂 But it was worth it and was such a fun experience (even if he'll never remember it), and if Jax was older I would do it again in a heartbeat. We were able to celebrate a belated Father's Day and experience so many new things together as a family. 
Special shoutout and huge thank you to Katie, Dziadz and Busia for making this possible-without you guys it never would have been possible!




If you ever have a chance to do this with your military children and it doesn't create too much stress or anxiety I would definitely try to. A lot of children from civilian families aren't able to experience other cultures and see other parts of the world but that is one of the huge positives to being in a military family! It creates a set of unique adaptive skills that they will use for their entire life. But the same thing that creates a sense of adventure and adaptation can also create a lot of issues for your military child.

The constant moving is not always easy on them. It breaks their normal routine and creates so much change and moving pieces in their lives. The "military brat" oftentimes can develop psychological issues, have issues at school and act out more often. This is why communication is key for a military family. Make sure you get them the help they need or seek counseling if you can't talk them through it. The next time you are stressed about your upcoming move or the next deployment make sure you check on your children's emotions as well, they are going through just as much (if not more) and may not know how to handle it or express it.

Even though military life can cause more stress on children, take advantage of all the advantages it can bring. You'll travel across the states, and possibly countries, and that helps create a certain type of resilience and adventure in a person. Acknowledge that resilience and love them for it. Thank them for being the way they are and making the sacrifices they make. Take advantage of all the special discounts that are available to military children as well. Here you will find places that have those discounts and special deals! Treat your children for all they go through and take them somewhere special.

But mostly, just love your children every moment that you can. Take advantage of the times you have together as a family and the little day to day moments that you share. Create a positive environment for them as much as possible. Communicate with teachers what your children are going through and if a spouse is on a deployment. Create a deployment wall to help them visually see what is going on. Get books that help them emotionally understand what is going on. Talk, talk, talk.

Take care of them. They are tough 💪 but deployments are tougher. Check out my page on How to take care of the kids during a deployment for more helpful information. These kids deserve all the recognition they can get because their strength and resilience is incredible.

Comment below ↓ on how you give your kids recognition.

Thank a military child this month! 💜





Hi there and welcome to my new blog!

April 1, 2019

Here goes nothing!

As a fairly recent newcomer to motherhood, I have realized that it is hard almost impossible to find REAL moms out there who are down to earth, honest, relatable, and who drop a few F* bombs here and there (oops 😬) . 

Being a HUGE extrovert myself and having a love of socializing, sometimes it's hard being stuck at home with only a tiny human being who can't talk yet. Two years into motherhood, with being a mom as my only career, I wanted to have a place of comfort that other moms can come to. I don't want other moms feeling like I have at times--of sometimes having that feeling of needing to do more and feeling inadequate, because at times everyone feels like this. This is just me being raw and sharing parts of my life that only my husband knows about. I will talk about mom stuff, let you know what life is ACTUALLY like being a military wife (and advice on how to survive), post some yummy recipes, help you with how to survive travel with a baby, give you some fun crafts to do with your little ones, and tell you about the products I recommend to help out motherhood. If that interests you at all, take a look around and see if there is anything you like!

Fair warning: I have a foul mouth, I love living in places that have REAL seasons, I can never have too many iced caramel macchiatos, I can eat avocado on almost everything, I absolutely love my family more than anything in this world, and I am obsessed with the color yellow. 

No mom is perfect and neither am I.


 He's really 2, not 5...But ya know he looked super cute in this pic so I didn't care that the balloon was backwards. Cuz ya know, Mom Life 💁

Comment below with future post suggestions!


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